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Post by kimmykins83 on Aug 24, 2007 6:09:56 GMT -5
For example, if I got pregnant nowadays unplanned, I would more than likely wish to get rid of it myself as I'm still not ready for a kid of my own just yet  |
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Post by mzintoxicating on Sept 15, 2007 13:56:00 GMT -5
Sex is sex. There's no garuntee that you're not going to get pregnant. That's what most people don't think when they're underage and decide to have sex. They don't think that they're going to get pregnant. They don't think of what will happen if they do get pregnant. If you do this with your own consent, then I say you shouldn't be allowed to get a abortion. Even if your parents are forcing you to drop it, I don't believe it is right to because you, yourself should of thought of the consequences before actually having sex.
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Post by xoshoppingxo on Nov 13, 2007 14:10:41 GMT -5
ABORTION IS MURDER!!
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Post by writergirl on Nov 13, 2007 15:15:20 GMT -5
Sex is a choice. If you think you are mature enough to have sex then you have to be mature enough to handle anything that could come from it . Abortion is sick and imature. Is murdering an innocent child that did nothing to deserve death. I know someone who got pregnant at 15 and her parents forced her to have an abortion. There was absolutely nothing she could do, he father was mean, and she couldn't stand up to him. In that case, it's still wrong, but her parents should have been ashamed. Their hands are coated in that babies blood. But that does not mean that this girl was innocent. If she had not been having sex at a extremely young age she would have never gotten pregnant and there would not be a dead child.
It all boils down to this: DON'T HAVE SEX UTNIL YOU ARE MARRIED. There are so many reasons why you shoudn't.
First of all you aren't mature enough at 14, 15,16... you aren't. No matter how grown up you think you are, you are still a kid. Once you have sex there is no going back. You are giving yourself to someone. You are not mature enough to understand the consequences that come from sex at a young age. Not only physical consequences by emotional ones too. What if that guy dumps you after he gets what he wants? What if you get pregnant and he just denies he ever slept with you? What are you going to do? WHat will your parents say?
All of these decisions that no one wants to make can be avoided if you just wait. Wait until you are married, then you know that he loves you for you, and not because he wants some. You know he's not going to leave you. You are mature enough for the consequenes. If a child were to come along, there will be no shame, no hard decisions. You will be ready for them and you can love them the way they deserve.
Stop trying to grow up before you are ready. Accept that purity is not somehting to be ashamed of but soemthing to be cherished. Enjoy the peace that comes from not having to worry about what's going to happen.
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Post by The Big PINK One♥ on Nov 13, 2007 16:39:37 GMT -5
Sex is a choice. If you think you are mature enough to have sex then you have to be mature enough to handle anything that could come from it . Abortion is sick and imature. Is murdering an innocent child that did nothing to deserve death. I know someone who got pregnant at 15 and her parents forced her to have an abortion. There was absolutely nothing she could do, he father was mean, and she couldn't stand up to him. In that case, it's still wrong, but her parents should have been ashamed. Their hands are coated in that babies blood. But that does not mean that this girl was innocent. If she had not been having sex at a extremely young age she would have never gotten pregnant and there would not be a dead child. It all boils down to this: DON'T HAVE SEX UTNIL YOU ARE MARRIED. There are so many reasons why you shoudn't. First of all you aren't mature enough at 14, 15,16... you aren't. No matter how grown up you think you are, you are still a kid. Once you have sex there is no going back. You are giving yourself to someone. You are not mature enough to understand the consequences that come from sex at a young age. Not only physical consequences by emotional ones too. What if that guy dumps you after he gets what he wants? What if you get pregnant and he just denies he ever slept with you? What are you going to do? WHat will your parents say? All of these decisions that no one wants to make can be avoided if you just wait. Wait until you are married, then you know that he loves you for you, and not because he wants some. You know he's not going to leave you. You are mature enough for the consequenes. If a child were to come along, there will be no shame, no hard decisions. You will be ready for them and you can love them the way they deserve. Stop trying to grow up before you are ready. Accept that purity is not somehting to be ashamed of but soemthing to be cherished. Enjoy the peace that comes from not having to worry about what's going to happen. You are dead on... to some extent because many people that are young, will not wait. Nowadays, its rare to find someone that has waited. I mean how many 20-something virgins do you know? Now as for knowing that the person that your married to is not going to leave you is valid but then how do you count for all of the underage and young marriages popping up all over the nation? Plus, not to mention there are teenage pregnancies in other cultures that view as young as 14 as an adult. These kids get sent off to marry people that their parents have picked for them to marry. But back to this country, the more younger your married, the more likely your marriage will end in divorce. Thats something else to think about. But I feel EXACTLY what you're saying. The best way to make sure that these things dont happen to you is to not have sex at all. |
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Post by writergirl on Nov 13, 2007 20:26:17 GMT -5
Sex is a choice. If you think you are mature enough to have sex then you have to be mature enough to handle anything that could come from it . Abortion is sick and imature. Is murdering an innocent child that did nothing to deserve death. I know someone who got pregnant at 15 and her parents forced her to have an abortion. There was absolutely nothing she could do, he father was mean, and she couldn't stand up to him. In that case, it's still wrong, but her parents should have been ashamed. Their hands are coated in that babies blood. But that does not mean that this girl was innocent. If she had not been having sex at a extremely young age she would have never gotten pregnant and there would not be a dead child. It all boils down to this: DON'T HAVE SEX UTNIL YOU ARE MARRIED. There are so many reasons why you shoudn't. First of all you aren't mature enough at 14, 15,16... you aren't. No matter how grown up you think you are, you are still a kid. Once you have sex there is no going back. You are giving yourself to someone. You are not mature enough to understand the consequences that come from sex at a young age. Not only physical consequences by emotional ones too. What if that guy dumps you after he gets what he wants? What if you get pregnant and he just denies he ever slept with you? What are you going to do? WHat will your parents say? All of these decisions that no one wants to make can be avoided if you just wait. Wait until you are married, then you know that he loves you for you, and not because he wants some. You know he's not going to leave you. You are mature enough for the consequenes. If a child were to come along, there will be no shame, no hard decisions. You will be ready for them and you can love them the way they deserve. Stop trying to grow up before you are ready. Accept that purity is not somehting to be ashamed of but soemthing to be cherished. Enjoy the peace that comes from not having to worry about what's going to happen. You are dead on... to some extent because many people that are young, will not wait. Nowadays, its rare to find someone that has waited. I mean how many 20-something virgins do you know? Now as for knowing that the person that your married to is not going to leave you is valid but then how do you count for all of the underage and young marriages popping up all over the nation? Plus, not to mention there are teenage pregnancies in other cultures that view as young as 14 as an adult. These kids get sent off to marry people that their parents have picked for them to marry. But back to this country, the more younger your married, the more likely your marriage will end in divorce. Thats something else to think about. But I feel EXACTLY what you're saying. The best way to make sure that these things dont happen to you is to not have sex at all. Yes it's rare. Why? Because we accept it. Why is premarital sex okay? It shouldnt' be. Our society is too accepting. We have to stop doing this, stop saying it's okay. All it does is lead to heartache for everyone involved. Parent's need to know where their kids are, what they are doing. Pull in the reigns. Tell them no. They aren't old enough to decide things that will effec the rest of their lives. And the kids, should be mature enough to realize that they aren't ready for this. Stop letting the passion take control, stop and think. In the long run premarital sex always hurts you. I don't think it's a great idea to get married young, because you hit the immaturity problem again. But if both the girl and the guy are willing to make such a commitment then that is their choice and once they are married they can have sex all they want. But no one in their right mind is going to get married just to have sex. So if they think they are old enough to get married then them and their parents should discuss it and decide. My parents got married when my mom was 17 and my dad was 19 and they have been married for almost 25 years. It's possible, hard but possible. To be honest our culture is about as screwed up as can be so we need to worry about us before we go pointing fingers at other countries. But yes young marriage is hard, but it's possible. You have to decide if you really love this person enough to spend your entire life with them. Most people now will just have sex with anyone. They don't care if they love eatch other. With marriage you are making a commitment. To stay together forever. With marriage you know that you will never get a one night stand. |
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Post by fakesalt on Nov 17, 2007 23:59:51 GMT -5
i'm pro-choice.
depends on the situation. if some girl got raped and couldn't help it, then i could understand. but if some girl knew she was having unsafe sex, if she knew about pregnancy, then its her fault. but, they should have a choice, ya know?
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Post by writergirl on Nov 18, 2007 0:36:40 GMT -5
i'm pro-choice. depends on the situation. if some girl got raped and couldn't help it, then i could understand. but if some girl knew she was having unsafe sex, if she knew about pregnancy, then its her fault. but, they should have a choice, ya know? Don't get me wrong rape is horrible, beyond words. But is killing an innocent child really going to solve your problems. Now instead of one crime you have two. That child is a product of a horrible action but the child itsef did nothing wrong. It's not fair to kill him for the horrible actions of his father. |
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Post by misskelli on Jan 7, 2008 17:43:42 GMT -5
To Qoute Martina Navratilova
"I think the key is for women not to set any limits."
If you chose to have sex before marriage than have sex before marriage if you don't than don't. It is for you to decided and you alone.
To Qoute Myself
"My Mind, My Body, My Spirit and if you don't like it you can shove it."
You don't wanna have baby than don't have a baby. Its nobodys chance but your own and nobody can tell you what to do. To ban abortion would be stupid because to bring a child into a world where it is not wanted is just as bad as some people think abortion is.
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Post by writergirl on Jan 7, 2008 17:52:43 GMT -5
To Qoute Martina Navratilova "I think the key is for women not to set any limits."If you chose to have sex before marriage than have sex before marriage if you don't than don't. It is for you to decided and you alone. To Qoute Myself "My Mind, My Body, My Spirit and if you don't like it you can shove it."You don't wanna have baby than don't have a baby. Its nobodys chance but your own and nobody can tell you what to do. To ban abortion would be stupid because to bring a child into a world where it is not wanted is just as bad as some people think abortion is. You are loosing the importance of life. You aren't picking out a pair of shoes, you are murdering an innocent child. A living, child. This child has its own blood, it's own heart, it's own brain. You are simply it's house. It's not your body. |
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