Kelly Rowlands Breast Implants

[writergirl]

You are right, it's a void. For some reason they don't feel like they are good enough the way they are. They could always be better. That is a sick cycle because you can never win. Someone is always going to be prettier than you ,and skinner than you, and they are going to have bigger boobs than you, and they are going to get more attention than you. Trying to be better than them, or to look better by surgery isnt' goin going to make you happy. You are going to fix one part and then find another part of you taht isn't perfect. We just have to love who we are. We all have inperfections. But people who truly love you will love you for your inperfections.

[LiL ThUg iT JaYe]

I agree. Everyone has inperfections, disqualities, flaws, whatever people call them. If you are with someone, you love them. Your saying that you are perfectly 100% in love with them, and everything they do, including picking their noses, scratching their butts, or whatever, so they me in reverse, they should feel 100% the same way as you do, but like you were saying, it's not always like that between two people.

The void sometimes can come from insecurity but I think most of the time, it's something that is in their heads or has been placed in their heads. I think it is mental, I don't believe its physical. I know people who go to McDonalds and order happy meals just to waste it. Eat half of the patty, throw away the bread, eat two fries and eat a chunk of ice. They do it, because they want to remain the way they are. It s a competition thing, with girls who look like them as far as body types, being skinny, long legs, small waist, big boobs, and all. I think they just don't want to be people they have seen, people who are heavyset or people who are disabled, they don't want to be, someone they feel sorry for.

[The Big PINK One♥]

babiij said:

I agree. Everyone has inperfections, disqualities, flaws, whatever people call them. If you are with someone, you love them. Your saying that you are perfectly 100% in love with them, and everything they do, including picking their noses, scratching their butts, or whatever, so they me in reverse, they should feel 100% the same way as you do, but like you were saying, it's not always like that between two people.
The void sometimes can come from insecurity but I think most of the time, it's something that is in their heads or has been placed in their heads. I think it is mental, I don't believe its physical. I know people who go to McDonalds and order happy meals just to waste it. Eat half of the patty, throw away the bread, eat two fries and eat a chunk of ice. They do it, because they want to remain the way they are. It s a competition thing, with girls who look like them as far as body types, being skinny, long legs, small waist, big boobs, and all. I think they just don't want to be people they have seen, people who are heavyset or people who are disabled, they don't want to be, someone they feel sorry for.

It's unrealistic. There is always something about someone that their mate or friend does not like. I have several friends that do or say things that tick me off. Sometimes, its something about their personality that makes me cringe, I still love them... but I just wish they wouldn't do the things they do. Everyone has a quirk about them thats what makes us all unique and sets us apart from the next person.

[LiL ThUg iT JaYe]

True.
I am in agreement.
I'm trying to say that, okay senario:
You have this friend who constantly picks her nose and then digs in her ear, and everytime you see her do that, if just grosses you out and leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Your always telling to stop doing it, that its disgusting and just ewww....but if one day she decides she's never going to do it again just for you.
You would be satified but, but what happens when you begin to miss that she does that, you miss that you don't tell her to quit and laugh about it anymore, it's like you feel that you have taken a piece of her away. It was something you didn't like an a flaw in your eyes, but it was apart of her it was who made her who she was, that's what sets her out from everyone else, I think all people have this in them. So even with everything I think you still love them with flaws and all, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

[writergirl]

Right, and plasic surgery isnt' going to make you feel better. Not for long anyways, just until you find something else wrong. Self acceptance is so important, with out self acceptance you get eating disorders, people who are obsessed with plastic surgery....and so on. Love yourself and others will love you. None of us are perfect but we are special the way we are.

[LiL ThUg iT JaYe]

I agree, you couldn't have said that any better. Its all about self-acceptance.